BOOK
To Be a Jew: A Guide to Jewish Observance in Contemporary
Life
Donin, Hayim Halevy. To Be a Jew: A Guide to Jewish Observance in Contemporary Life. USA: Basic Books. 1972. 316 Pages. ISBN: 0465086322.
REVIEW
As a teacher of the causes, events, and results of the Shoah, one of the most common questions I face is, “Why the Jews?” Students are always distraught as to why this one group was (in some opinions) singled out for destruction by the Nazis in the 1930’s-‘40’s. Several years ago, as a budding instructor of this material, I felt that to do the entire scope of the Holocaust justice, I should inform myself of not only Jewish history, but of Jewish practices as well. As a Protestant, my eyes were opened to an almost-entirely different world of belief and ritual that my Christian experience had largely ignored.
For the Christian teacher, knowledge of Judaism might begin somewhere in the background of Jesus and His disciples partaking of the Passover meal just prior to His arrest. For the man on the street, his vision of Passover might be the scene from Cecil B. DeMille’s “The Ten Commandments” with Charlton Heston. But to discuss this topic with high school students, I needed more than just ethnocentric views or pop culture – I had to educate myself and be in a position to give hard facts on just what it was/is about Jewish culture that has seemingly separated them from the parties that have politically and socially dominated them throughout the past two millennia (or longer). And what’s more, I needed to discuss how life for the observant Jews marks them (in some cases) or allows them to blend into Western culture (in other cases). A course I took at Spertus College in Chicago, Jewish Practices, has helped me to achieve my goals in this regard. The main text for the course, Rabbi Hayim Halevy Donin’s To Be a Jew: A Guide to Jewish Observance in Contemporary Life, is an invaluable resource promoting the non-Jew’s (or even non-observant Jew’s) understanding of observant Jewish culture.
Rabbi Donin writes with a comfort and ease that is not the least bit intimidating. There is no “in-crowd” feeling when reading this text. Rabbi Donin is brilliant in the presentation of his manuscript in that it is effortlessly approachable, not too technical, and digestible for the novice. From the back cover:
This unique treasury of practical information and daily inspiration has long been acknowledged as the classic guide to the ageless heritage of Judaism – Jewish attitudes, Jewish philosophy, and Jewish law.
“For a general discussion of Jewish living, To Be a Jew is unexcelled. It is comprehensive and clear.”
--Ruth Frank and William Wollheim, The Book of Jewish Books
Donin breaks his message into four categories: The Underlying Creed, where he addresses the history and basic composition of Jewish thought/belief; The Daily Way of Life, in which issues of relationships between people and God (Sabbath, kosher eating) as well as interpersonal relationships (kindness, family life, love, the synagogue) are addressed; The Special Occasions of the Year (major festivals and other days of observance/historical significance); and The Special Occasions of Life (birth, bar- and bat-mitzvah, marriage, death and mourning). Each of these four major sections is broken down into several short chapters and each chapter has several sections or points of emphasis – the structure of the text is such that anyone can easily look up a particular item of inquiry and get a quick and concise answer. For example (from the Table of Contents, p. viii) –
Chapter 7: Family Life: A Key to Happiness 121
Honoring Parents 128 The Education and Upbringing of Children 129
Relationship of Husband and Wife 133
Divorce 135
Sexual Discipline in Marriage 136
Modesty 139
Abortion and Birth Control 140
Abortion 140
Birth Control 141
As you can see, Donin covers issues in great detail, yet his discussion is comprehensive without watering down his message. That is why I feel this to be an invaluable resource for the classroom teacher. But for those seeking more detail, one may read entire chapters and can pursue Donin’s references to either the Hebrew Bible (aka the Old Testament for those possessing a Christian Bible) or Talmud (the oral or rabbinical tradition in Judaism).
Cultural appreciation of particular Jewish rituals and ethics is attainable from this text, as well. Where pertinent, Donin includes illustrations for the reader to fully grasp, for example, the correct positioning for tefillin worn either on the arm or on the head. The reader should note, too, that there is some amount of Hebrew text included, but it is often followed by an English writing of the Hebrew characters (this is an excellent way to “see” the sounds made by the Hebrew characters) and always by an English translation of the Hebrew text. As mentioned above, Donin’s in-text referencing of the sacred sources immediately lends not only an historical relevance to the tradition, but a spiritual appreciation as well. Donin gives his readers the gift of Jewish knowledge packaged in a credible, useful, can’t-wait-to-return package. This book is a resource the Holocaust teacher should have, and will undoubtedly make use of time and again.
PASSAGE/QUOTE FOR CLASSROOM USAGE
During some semesters, if I look to have a bit more time for detail, I will use Chapter 1 (The Cornerstones of Judaism), pages 7-27, for student reading/discussion. This chapter contains the foundation of Judaism in any sect – concepts of peoplehood, of Israel and the right to the Land, of God, and of the Torah. See below for a study guide for this material.
If I had to use one quote, perhaps as a class introduction or lesson closer, I would write this on the chalkboard or an overhead transparency:
The first words of any introduction to the Jewish daily way of life must speak of kindness, because we believe that Jewish religious faith and ritual observance aim, above all, to achieve a perfection of the human relationship and to create a better society (41).
Given the state of Jewish history as you have probably discussed in your class, ask students to reflect on the statement overnight, and come back with ideas about how this has often been disregarded by other groups/faiths. Ask this question: Should the ideals of one religion/society be respected/honored by all societies? Why or why not?
In addition, students are also very interested in the blood libel charges that have been levied against the Jews from the Middle Ages forward. Donin has a chapter on kashrut (kosher eating), which has subsections that have proven to me to be very helpful. On pages 106-07 he writes of the requirement of Shehitah (ritual slaughter). Students might be interested to see the care that is taken in the killing of an animal so as not to cause it undue suffering. This would contradict Middle Age depictions of the demonized Jew. The following section, found on pages 107-11, has information on two methods for koshering meat. More importantly for your discussion, though, is the beginning of that section where Donin writes about the prohibition against blood. He supports many of his ideas with scriptural references. Students will begin to see, depending on how deeply you want to get into it, that Jewish law forbids the Jew from entering into the events with which they were generally charged in blood libel cases (charges which, when made, were almost always brought against observant Jews). Of course, you may run into a student who wants to stir the pot, so to speak, who might ask if a non-observant Jew follows all of the tenets of kashrut – if they don’t observe, then they could participate in a blood libel-type of crime. You can choose to follow that potential discussion as far as you want to – it can get into an exchange worthy of a television lawyer show if you let it! But, if it’s what gets the students thinking and interested, it can be worth the time spent on the diversion.
I might caution about the use of the conclusion of this chapter (which is Chapter 6, on the dietary laws), which includes the topics of meat and milk mixtures and eating out – kosher food in non-kosher vessels. Gauge your audience – if you are like me and teach in a setting that is 90+% Christian Caucasian with little religious diversity, going into these areas may do more harm than good. While you will certainly have some students who are able to appreciate and accept these tenets of the Jewish faith, I would suggest that as soon as someone says, “You mean I couldn’t have a cheeseburger??” their minds will be closed. If you teach a course on world religions, go for it; but if you are only coming to these topics as a background for the Holocaust, I’d probably stay away.
RATIONALE FOR USAGE/UNIT RELEVANCE
As stated in my introduction to the review of this book, it has proven to be an invaluable resource to begin a discussion of why the Jews have been separated politically, culturally, and socially by just about every group that has taken dominion over them. In addition, for the teacher who might be using Gary Grobman’s The Holocaust – A Guide For Teachers (reviewed elsewhere), Donin’s book serves as a fantastic supplement for details on Grobman’s second chapter, Who Are the Jews?
CLASSROOM METHOD OF USAGE
As mentioned previously, I use parts of this text to supplement my own notes as well as the Grobman text, which is my primary source for student readings and homework. However, from time to time we will enter into longer discussions on Jewish holidays, on kashrut (kosher eating), on Jewish beliefs of the afterlife, etc. At those times, I never fail to make my way to the bookcase and pull out this book. It is truly a lifesaver for the non-Jewish teacher when even moderately detailed answers are required for a student inquiry. I might mention as well, that an instructor of world history or comparative religions would benefit greatly from use of this text. It makes a wonderful side-by-side when looking at ethics or practices of other religions
STUDY QUESTIONS/DISCUSSION GUIDE
Donin’s first chapter, entitled The Cornerstones of Judaism, is a fantastic survey of the basic building blocks of Jewish belief. In an easy-to-read style, he gives the reader the essentials of Jewish belief, whether Orthodox or Reform – what he writes about in this chapter is certainly open to interpretation by the various Jewish denominations, but it is central to them all nonetheless. What follows is a student study guide for pages 7-27 of the book. For the teacher, a key to the study guide concludes this review material.
Name ________________________________
To Be a Jew
Chapter 1 – The Cornerstones of Judaism reading study guide
1. What is the derivation of the following terms?
a. Hebrew _______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
b. Israelite _______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
c. Jew __________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
d. Yiddish _______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
2. True or false – Judaism was an “evangelistic” religion at its outset. ______________
a. Extra Credit: What can you find out about this notion as it applies today, say to Jews in America? Please list resources you used to answer this question. ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ Resources: _____________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
3. What characteristics made the Hebrews a nation? ____________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
4. Concerning Donin's material, is Judaism a matriarchal or patriarchal condition of birth? __________ ____________________________________________________________________
5. Is a Jewish convert of equal status to a “born” Jew? __________________________
a. Extra Credit: Substitute another religion, and answer the question again. Give details concerning differences, and a resource list. _________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ Resources: _____________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
6. Describe the universal “kinship” of Jews. __________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
7. What happened to Jewish thought and historical significance after the Biblical period? _____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
8. The Jew effects social justice through _____________________________________.
9. Give three ways the devout Jew serves the Lord.
a. ______________________________________________________________
b. ______________________________________________________________
c. ______________________________________________________________
10. In regard to the above question/answers, do you think the average American, regardless of their religious background, follows such a view? ____________ Why or why not (support your answer)? ________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
11. What is the purpose of Judaism, or what is not the purpose of Judaism? __________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
a. You have heard before the Jews described as the “Chosen People”. How does this interpretation of their purpose differ from your understanding of the meaning you had prior to reading this? Give details. ___________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
12. What was the land of Israel called before God gave it to the Hebrews? ___________
a. Why is it known as “The Promised Land”? ___________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
13. What is the historical event that “began” Israel? _____________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
a. What is significant about the commandments of God in relation to the Land? ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
b. What did the Israelites have to “purge from the soil”? ___________________ ______________________________________________________________
14. In the past 3200 years, approximately how many years have there been few Jews in the Land? ____________________________________________________________
15. List several other civilizations who conquered the land of Israel, the year in which they did so, and for approximately how long (you may need to do additional research for dates):
a. ______________________________________________________________
b. ______________________________________________________________
c. ______________________________________________________________
d. ______________________________________________________________
e. ______________________________________________________________
f. ______________________________________________________________
g. ______________________________________________________________
h. ______________________________________________________________
16. What was the condition of the Land when the Zionists began to arrive in the latter part of the 19th century? ________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
17. What type of Jew could be considered a Zionist? ____________________________
18. What is the meaning of the term Messiah? __________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
a. How does Jewish understanding of this term differ from the Christian interpretation of the term? __________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
b. What is the messianic period? _____________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
19. Give three examples of how modern Jews mourn the past destruction of Jerusalem:
a. ______________________________________________________________
b. ______________________________________________________________
c. ______________________________________________________________
20. Give three reasons why Jews today are still moving to the state of Israel:
a. ______________________________________________________________
b. ______________________________________________________________
c. ______________________________________________________________
21. Given the above answers, compare Jewish immigration to the land of Israel with the immigration to the United States in the late 19th and early 20th centuries of peoples from around the world. Were motivations of the immigrants similar or different, and how so? _________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
a. Is Israel today a “melting pot”? ____________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
22. Give four examples of how other nations or institutions declined the opportunity to save Jews during the Holocaust.
a. ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
b. ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
c. ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
d. ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________
23. What was different about Abraham’s faith, as compared to people living at the same time? _______________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
a. Was he the first monotheist? _______________________________________
24. After Abraham, was Israel always monotheistic? If not, give examples of how the Israelites strayed? _____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
25. According to the author, why is man not qualified to state whether or not God exists? ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
26. Explain the difference between ideas above reason and against reason. ___________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
27. Describe the Jewish conception of God:
a. ______________________________________________________________
b. ______________________________________________________________
c. ______________________________________________________________
d. ______________________________________________________________
e. ______________________________________________________________
f. ______________________________________________________________
g. ______________________________________________________________
28. What is generally the highest being for one who denies the existence of God? ______
29. According to the author, what is the “very essence of Judaism”? ________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
30. What is the “written Torah”? ____________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
31. What separates traditionalists from non-traditionalists regarding the Torah? _______ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
32. What is the “oral Torah”? _______________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
33. What purpose does the oral Torah mainly serve? _____________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
34. Do Jews view the Torah as relevant to non-Jews? Why or why not? _____________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
35. How is the latter part of the Hebrew Bible divided? __________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
36. Is the term “Old Testament” offensive to Jews? Why or why not? _______________ ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
37. What is the ultimate purpose of the Torah to a Jew? __________________________ ____________________________________________________________________
Name Key
To Be a Jew
Chapter 1 – The Cornerstones of Judaism reading study guide